Minister
Kingsley Okonkwo
Kingsley Okonkwo is a Specialist when it comes to Relationships and Marriages. With over two decades hands-on experience as a pastor, relationship coach, counsellor, TV personality and best-selling author, PK, as he is fondly called is a presidential member of the American Association of Christian Counsellors, a board certified Master Christian Life Coach and a certified relationship counsellor. He is renowned for Love and Relationships, Marriage and Family Life, Divorce and Infidelity Recovery counseling amongst others. His unique say-it-as-it-is, fun-filled style of teaching dating, courtship and marriage endears him to both the young and old as they are greatly impacted by his relationship masterclasses, one-on-one coaching sessions, live broadcasts on social media and numerous ministry resources. His client base include high profile executives and celebrities.
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- 6 WAYS TO KNOW YOUR MARRIAGE WILL LAST OR BREAK
Oct 13, 2025 • 28 min
6 Ways To Know Your Marriage Will Last or Break Every marriage gives signs, some point to growth, others warn of danger. In this eye-opening teaching, you’ll discover the 7 key indicators that reveal whether your marriage is built to last or heading for trouble. Marriage isn’t luck; it’s the result of patterns, principles, and choices. When you understand these signs early, you can protect your relationship and rebuild before it’s too late. In this video, you’ll learn: The behaviors that strengthen or silently destroy a marriage How to spot early warning signs before things fall apart The habits of couples who last through every season Biblical wisdom that keeps love, respect, and peace alive Whether you’re single, engaged, or already married, this message will give you the insight you need to build a lasting, godly relationship that thrives even in tough times. Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE, and SUBSCRIBE for more teachings that help you grow in love, purpose, and marriage. Follow us on Instagram | Facebook | TikTok for daily wisdom and updates. #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipWisdom #ChristianMarriage #LoveAndMarriage #MarriageCounseling #HealthyRelationships #KingsleyOkonkwo —- Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- Why Some MARRIAGES Last and Others Don't
Jun 9, 2025 • 22 min
Why Some Marriages Last and Others Don't | The Hidden Truths About Lasting Love What makes one marriage thrive while another falls apart? In this eye-opening video, we uncover the key differences between marriages that stand the test of time and those that crumble under pressure. From communication breakdowns to unmet expectations, and the often-overlooked power of shared values, you'll gain insight into what truly makes a marriage work—and what silently destroys it. Whether you’re single, engaged, newly married, or navigating the ups and downs of married life, this video will give you the clarity and tools you need to build a love that lasts. Register for Premarital Counseling - https://mainstack.store/ldmproducts/premarital-group-counseling-with-pk-and-pm — Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- Mastering the Art of Conflict Resolution in Marriage | Dr. Kingsley & Mildred Okonkwo
Apr 21, 2025 • 1h 9m
Every marriage has conflict—but not every couple knows how to handle it the right way. In this eye-opening video, we break down practical, godly, and effective tools to help you master the art of conflict resolution in your marriage. Whether you're newlyweds or have been married for years, learning how to disagree without disconnecting is essential for a thriving relationship. In this video, you’ll learn: The root causes of recurring arguments Healthy vs. toxic communication patterns Biblical wisdom for resolving issues peacefully How to listen with empathy and speak with grace Steps to rebuild trust and deepen emotional connection Perfect for couples who want to: Stop the cycle of miscommunication and silent treatment Argue less, understand more, and love deeper Build a conflict strategy that strengthens your union Don't just manage conflict—master it and watch your marriage flourish. LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more marriage-building content! #ConflictResolution #ChristianMarriage #MarriageTips #CommunicationInMarriage #HealthyRelationships #FaithAndLove
- Is Marriage Your Desire or a Desperate Need?
Mar 1, 2025 • 19 min
Is Marriage Your Desire or a Desperate Need? Marriage is a beautiful thing, but why do you want it? Is it a genuine desire rooted in love, purpose, and partnership? Or has it become a desperate need fueled by pressure, fear, or loneliness? In this video, I break down the difference between wanting marriage for the right reasons and chasing it out of desperation—and trust me, the difference is huge! If you don’t check your motives, you may find yourself in a marriage that doesn’t bring joy, fulfillment, or lasting peace. What You’ll Learn: ✅ How to tell if you’re truly ready for marriage ✅ The dangers of letting desperation lead your decisions ✅ The importance of wholeness before marriage ✅ How to prepare for the right relationship instead of forcing the wrong one ✅ Practical steps to shift your mindset and approach marriage from a place of wisdom, not worry If this message speaks to you, take a moment to reflect, like, share, and drop a comment on what stood out most! And don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss future teachings on love, relationships, and godly wisdom. -- #DrKingsleyOkonkwo #MarriageWisdom #RelationshipAdvice #MarriagePreparation #GodlyMarriage #KingdomRelationships #WholenessBeforeMarriage #ChristianDating #PurposefulMarriage #DesperationVsDesire #LoveAndWisdom #MarriageGoals #FaithAndRelationships #ChoosingRight #WaitingWell #KingdomLove Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- Acknowledging What You Have | A Message To The Body
Jan 5, 2024 • 1h 4m
Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he addresses the body of Christ with a very timely and powerful message at WOFBEC 2024 To Join The LDM Academy of Counselors visit https://ldmonlinecourses.org/ To Book Counseling: Visit https://www.ldmwithpk.org/counselling/ or Reach +2348077714412 on WhatsApp For Books & Other resources: Visit https://www.ldmwithpk.org/store/ or Reach +2348077714413 —- Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- 7 Mistakes Ladies Make When They Like a Guy
Dec 6, 2020 • 18 min
I realized that many ladies have wrong ideas when it comes to meeting guys and how the process of knowing them should go. So I decided to help out with 7 Mistakes Ladies Make When They Like A Guy. __ Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- Youtube Award Dedication
Nov 29, 2020 • 15 min
THANK YOU GUYS FOR A 100K+ SUBSCRIBERS THANK YOU @YouTube @youtubecreators __ Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- Why Good Girls Marry Wrong | Part 1
Sep 19, 2020 • 24 min
Being good is not all that matters, it is important to seek knowledge and wisdom on how to handle different issues that occur in life. Your excellence in behavior does not guarantee excellence in a relationship, communication, life, it can help you progress but you need more. Watch this Classic Clip, as I share Why Good Girls Marry Wrong. __ Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- Real Talk on Love Dating and Marriage | Part 1
Aug 28, 2020 • 30 min
Subscribe to my channel: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he hosts the first edition of the Real Talk Series featuring these great ladies; Omowunmi Dada, Olive Emodi, Bella-Rose Okojie, Stephanie Obi. __ Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- 7 Common Love Lies | Kingsley Okonkwo | Part 1
Aug 1, 2020 • 23 min
Subscribe to my channel: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube There are so many things we call 'love' these days, it is important you know what Love is so you never fall into deceit. Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 7 Common Love Lies __ Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- What Nobody Tells You About Sex | Kingsley Okonkwo | Part 3
Jul 7, 2020 • 21 min
Sex is a very important topic and unfortunately, very few people talk "rightly" about it, over the years people have been shy, ignorant, over-protective to a disadvantage, etc. Sadly, the inability to overlook these things and face the root of what has caused a great problem in our society has increased the rate of vices. Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he teaches in Part 3 of the "What Nobody Tells You About Sex" series. —- Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- What Nobody Tells You About Sex | Kingsley Okonkwo | Part 2
Jul 4, 2020 • 29 min
Sex is a very important topic and unfortunately, very few people talk "rightly" about it, over the years people have been shy, ignorant, over-protective to a disadvantage, etc. Sadly, the inability to overlook these things and face the root of what has caused a great problem in our society has increased the rate of vices. Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he teaches in Part 2 of the "What Nobody Tells You About Sex" series. __ Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- What Nobody Tells You About Sex | Kingsley Okonkwo | Part 1
Jun 30, 2020 • 40 min
Sex is a very important topic and unfortunately, very few people talk "rightly" about it, over the years people have been shy, ignorant, over-protective to a disadvantage, etc. Sadly, the inability to overlook these things and face the root of what has caused a great problem in our society has increased the rate of vices. Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he teaches about this sensitive topic from a non-judgemental point but from scriptural principles, scientific facts, statistical facts. __ Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- THREE THINGS YOU MUST FIND BEFORE FINDING THE ONE
Jun 18, 2020 • 20 min
Sometimes we get obsessed with finding "The One", we rush into relationships based on feelings and we rush out of it when the going gets tough. A great deal of your happiness is attached to who you spend the rest of your life with...finding your partner is not a decision to be taken lightly. Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares Three Things to find before finding "The One" __ Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- Will You Marry You? Part 1
Jun 11, 2020 • 27 min
It requires patience and a walk with God to get God's best. It is important to be the best version of yourself, comfortable and happy with who you are before you decide to share a lifetime with another. The key to attracting the kind of person you want is to also be the person you want. __ Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- How To Treat Your Partner
May 20, 2020 • 24 min
A deeper look into the alphabets of marriage (A-Z), in this message Kingsley Okonkwo teaches with alphabets he would usually leave out till you read his book (A-Z of Marriage). It may sound "easy" or "difficult" to some but if followed appropriately, it can cause a great and lasting impression in your marriage. __ Stay Connected Website: https://www.ldmwithpk.org Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- NAVIGATING THE TIMES (PART 3)
May 17, 2020 • 26 min
Subscribe to my channel: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube We're committed to raising victorious people by schooling and training them through the word of faith into a life of 100% victory 100% of the time. —- Stay Connected Website: https://lovedatingandmarriage.org Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- NAVIGATING THE TIMES | PART 2
May 10, 2020 • 34 min
Subscribe to my channel: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube We're committed to raising victorious people by schooling and training them through the word of faith into a life of 100% victory 100% of the time. —- Stay Connected Website: https://lovedatingandmarriage.org Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- ME and MY COACH
May 6, 2020 • 1h 53m
You can get MARRYmattics or any of Rev's books on Amazon or call David on +2348164951093 Subscribe to my channel: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube We're committed to raising victorious people by schooling and training them through the word of faith into a life of 100% victory 100% of the time. —- Stay Connected Website: https://ldmwithpk.org Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon
- THE SAVIOR | PART 3
Apr 26, 2020 • 25 min
Subscribe to my channel: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube We're committed to raising victorious people by schooling and training them through the word of faith into a life of 100% victory 100% of the time. —- Stay Connected Website: https://lovedatingandmarriage.org Facebook: http://facebook.com/lovedatingandmarriage Instagram: http://instagram.com/ldmwithpk Twitter: http://twitter.com/ldmwithpk Stay Connected With Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo Kingsley Okonkwo YouTube: http://bit.ly/kingsleypstyoutube Kingsley Okonkwo Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PastorkingsleyOkonkwo/ Kingsley Okonkwo Instagram: http://instagram.com/kingsleypst Kingsley Okonkwo Twitter: http://twitter.com/kingsleypst #kingsleyokonkwo #Ldmwithpk #PastorK #DCCNIGERIA #LatestPastorKsermon